Paul Butlin
COUNSELLING & PSYCHOTHERAPY
Online LGBTQ+ counselling across the UK | Based in Manchester
For when you’re feeling anxious, low, misunderstood or unsure of yourself

LGBTQ+ Counselling
I offer online LGBTQ+ counselling for adults across the UK from my practice in Manchester.
You may be feeling anxious or low, having a difficult time in your relationships or finding it hard to feel comfortable in yourself. Perhaps you’re tired of worrying what other people think or trying to fit in.
Being LGBTQ+ may be part of what you want to talk about, or you may simply want a therapist who understands that part of you.
You don’t have to explain or defend who you are here.

What might be going on for you
You might be questioning your sexuality or gender, thinking about coming out or dealing with how other people have responded to you.
You may feel misunderstood by a partner or family member, or find that past experiences of rejection still affect how you see yourself and relate to others.
You might also be LGBTQ+ and want to talk about something completely unrelated.


What counselling with me is like
My approach is person-centred, which means I work with you rather than following a set formula. I’ll listen closely, ask questions and reflect on what I’m hearing. Sometimes I may gently challenge something if I think it could be helpful.
Over time, counselling can help things that have felt confusing or difficult to put into words begin to make more sense.

My experience
I have supported LGBTQ+ people through my work with LGBT Foundation and The Proud Trust.
My experiences as a gay man with a disability are also part of what brought me to become a counsellor. They help me understand how tiring it can be to feel different or misunderstood.
Practical details
All counselling sessions are held online using video call, so you can attend from wherever feels most comfortable and private for you.
Sessions last 50 minutes
My standard fee is £60 per session
Weekly sessions are recommended, but we can discuss what works best for you
You can visit the homepage via the links below to find out more about how therapy works and how to get started, or get in touch using the contact form.
